We've received a lot of advice and I've done my own web search on the topic. Dave gives A the bottle. L gives her the bottle. I give A the bottle. I hold her and put her in a bouncer. We've tried sitting and standing. We've tried freshly pumped milk, cold and room temperature milk. We've tried the BornFree, adiri, Medula bottles. I bought two more to try...Dr Brown's and tommee tipped. We've gotten the advise to try the Playtex latex nipples vs the silicone nipples. I haven't bought it yet because they didn't sell them at the store we were at. It's endless and she outright refuses all of them.
At A's two month appointment I was reassured she would not starve herself. Her doctor was not concerned at all. If A was in the less than 10% for growth then he would be, but she's in the 70-80% as of yesterday. A is thriving...12.4 lbs and 23 1/4 inches.
We have two weeks to get her to take the bottle and so we'll just keep trying.
Did I mention she's strong. The girl can move and lift herself. She demonstrated it for the doctor yesterday so he reminded us not to leave her unattended.